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Invest In Others

There is nothing quite so dead as a self-centered man - a man who holds himself up as a self-made success and measures himself and is pleased with the result. Don't become a legend in your own mind. The man who believes in nothing but himself lives in a very small world. 

The best way to be happy is to forget yourself and focus on other people. The higher you go in life, the more dependent you become on other people. 

Serving others is one of life's most awesome priviledges. The most satisfying thing in life is to have been able to give a large part of one self to others. Hunt for the good points in people, then do something to help them. Love others more than they deserve. You can't help others without helping yourself. 

Kindness is one of the most difficult things to give away since it usually comes back to you. If you sow a seed of kindness you enjoy the perpetual harvest. You can never expect too much of yourself in the matter of giving yourself to others. 

There are 3 keys to more abundant living: caring about others, daring for others and sharing with others. Assign yourself the purpose of making others happy and successful. People have a way of becoming what you encourage them to be. "You'll always have everything you want in life if you'll help enough other people get what they want". 

There are two types of people in the world: those who come into a room and say "Here I am!" and those who come in and say, "Ah, there you are". If you cannot win, make the one ahead of you break the record. Invest in others. It pays great dividends. A good way to forget your own trouble, is to help others out of theirs. Work together with others. 

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