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If you find yourself taking two steps forward and one step backwards, invariably it's because you have mixed associations in your life. Choose your association carefully. The less you associate with some people, the more your life will improve. 

The simple but true fact of life is that you become like those with whom you closely associate with - for the good and bad. A mirror reflects a man's face, but what he is really like is shown by the kind of friends he chooses. 

Our lives can never be better than the quality of friends we chose. This is a law of life. Your choice of friend should be made, based, and motivated by similarities of visions and values. Your relationships will influence your future. 

They're are 3 levels of relationships that we have in life: relationships with those above us, relationships with our mates or peers, and relationships with those below us that we're helping to grow. Focus more on the first and last levels. 

The more you hang out with those higher than you, the higher you go. The more you help those below you to succeed - because of the unfailing law of sowing and reaping - the more you attract oppurtunities and people to your life that help you grow and succeed as well. 

The quality of your friends has a direct relationships with the quality of your life because in life, you are either getting better or getting worse depending on your relationships. To make friend become friendly, to find a true friend, first become one. Like the most other life decisions, quality is better than quantity. 

Choose your relationships with good judgement, choose with excellence. 

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